Most times I'm just trying to climb back into the closet. I often can't find my way or my pants.
Saturday, December 24, 2005
Going to the Pawn Shop before Christmas
Saturday, December 17, 2005
All the Apples I hold onto that God says I don't need
I need to clean my house. I need to make gifts. I need to pay bills. Yes, very busy. Where to start with such lovely chores to pick from.
I had a few very busy days...couldn't blog at all.
This week, at work, I was told that we could not sing all of the selected songs. The initial selection was raped and pillaged to include intelligent design and the likes. With the two Christians in tow on this, I was told that "they didn't want to push Christianity on anyone.....BUT...."
So, there was, the "but"...which just leads to the, either the unspoken or ever so carefully politically correct... "we're going to do it anyway." I could have fought about it. But, I just didn't want to. With die hard Christians, true to point, they will, in fact, miss the point. Blinded by their own misguided faith, not by the faith itself, but the twisting of it to meet their needs. I've read the book, too.
My hope this season, was for all of us at work, to be a little bit silly, yes, silly with eachother. Once you have been silly with another human, all things can become close. Tragedy and Silliness are the two emotions that can draw people together. They release the fear of embarrassment or self-protection. And since we've all had enough tragedy this year, I was opting for silliness.
I also was hoping to include everyone. There are non-Christians at work. Why should they not be included in the good cheer and good spirit?
I also, I had already made sure to include these Christians in the song list. There were spots allotted for their purely Christian songs. I had included them already. Now, we had to not include everyone else, for the most part. I was very sad and disappointed. My Holiday Spirit was a bit shaken for a few minutes.
Also, these two, just love to sing. Not that the new, revised song list was to make sure that they had a bit more of the spotlight at the party. Surely, not that. I had to wonder if there was a tiny bit of personal ego there. Which, again, is stupid to me, as the Spirit is not about personal spotlight and ego.
It was going to be ok if we were all off key, and a bit disheveled. It was going to be ok if we weren't a professional singing group. We were a bunch of people at an office, just singing for the hell of it.
Now, the talk of a pitch pipe and Jesus.
We are now down to only one silly song. One person admitted that we couldn't go gungho with naming Jesus outright, as there are laws that protect the non-Christians. Their onslaught only toned down by laws...not the being caring and sharing, which IS stated in the Bible...many times, but laws. Laws intendend to make sure people behave themselves around other people.
This is one of the reasons, I keep my faith to myself. I do not want to be the enforcer. Jesus was not an enforcer...he just walked around talking nicely and people chose to hang out with him.
If more Christians did a little bit less of the forcing of their religious practices, then maybe more people would be apt to join in.
But, will I be there singing? Yes, I will don my red hat, and I will sing the verses that I want to sing, and I will politely listen to the ones that I don't want to sing. I'm not feeling completely defeated. Maybe these two really need this enforcement and justification for themselves. I can be compassionate enough to them to let them have this.
Some people, in other places strap bombs to themselves, to their bodies, for all different religions, and we still don't listen. As there are pictures of a bomb shredded foot still tied into it's running shoe, sans body, all that's left of that human, who will not be returning home or going to work, or standing in line, to buy that latte after all, still we do not learn. If that doesn't get us...then maybe nothing will.
We still will not set the example of caring and sharing. Is there nothing that can't be overcome by a little sharing and tolerance? How about sharing and minding your own business. What about that route? It's not just Jesus that spoke about that, lots of religions have that theme in common.
It's not the Spirit of the Holidays that gets me down...it's the hypocrisy that gets to me.
As there are people among us who feel that there is a giant war on taking Christ out of Christmas...and they have threatened to boycott stores that say Happy Holidays, instead of Merry Christmas...well good for you. GOOD FOR YOU!@#@!@!!!
http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20051211/ap_on_re_eu/pope_nativity
"In today's consumer society, this time (of the year) is unfortunately subjected to a sort of commercial 'pollution' that is in danger of altering its true spirit, which is characterized by meditation, sobriety and by a joy that is not exterior but intimate," the pope said in his traditional Sunday blessing."
But, maybe there's some hope after all.
I've recently read where we're roping in the Patriot Act in lieu of protecting our civil rights. That's a nice turn of events for the holidays. I don't really own anything but my civil rights...so that a nice gift. The money spent on wire taping my house or checking my hospital records, or viewing my reading list, only to find out that I am a boring sort, who's not doing much of anything, yes, the money spent on this could be used to feed several of the growing number of homeless people that I see standing more and more on my city street corners. These people we have defeated to make into possible criminals who will need to steal to eat or stay warm. Spend the money on that.
And also, there's been some articles on how playdoh and cut off fingers can fool biometric securities. Which I also found promising for the holidays. I'm poor. I do not want to have to scan my eyeball to get into my house. That's just weird. It's weird to spend my time making and taking such extravagant measures for securities. If you need this level of security, well, in my opinion, maybe you own too much crap, and should be involved in a little more caring and sharing. Does anyone know the statistics on the wealthy people who need this type of security?
We have become a society, a world, of Hurry Up and Get As Much Crap As Possible Stacked Up Before We Die. Well, maybe we've always been that way. Bonking each other on the head as cavemen for the better slice of mammoth...the warmer piece of fur, etc. Adam and Eve did eat the apple, didn't they? Too enticing, after being given paradise, to enticing just not to touch. Today this has become a fable, a story, not a lesson to learn and live by. And now we need biometrics to protect all of our shiny apples.
I'm not going to be able to keep up with all of that. I don't want to. I do not want your shiny apples.
So, maybe that's my goal. I will share and care what little I have. And this year not to let the hypocrisy of the holidays get me down, or make me loose sight of my intended good cheer.
Wednesday, December 14, 2005
Every can of peas has a story
Tuesday, December 13, 2005
I Prayed to The Aqua Gator that We Would All Still Have Jobs
I suppose I'm a bit annoyed by the poor people getting the ole fuck stick up the ass, so to speak.
The office is very tense. There will be layoffs this year. Right after Christmas. We all know about it. It's a small office, with some of the supposedly most trusted people who blab. No one's quit sure who's on the list. I'm worried. It's true. We all are. There are tears of worry in a few people's eyes. In fact, two people that I know, this is really going to fuck their lives up for a bit. A few dollars is truly going to fuck them. For as hard a year as it's been on the owners of the business, it's been harder on the rest of us as office staff. And in the case of these two particular staff, they are the good ones, who have bent over backwards time and time again to do their work, and sometimes other people's as well.
One of the higher ups complained about his furniture yesterday. It was top priority. He simply had to have new furniture!!!! This one is a particular sort. He's always been a complainer and a person with a self-imposed sense of entitlement. And none of us knows exactly how to tell him, that when you self-impose entitlement not very many people are going to take you seriously. On the other hand, most of us recognize that his money and his self-entitlement is all he's got. No real personality or cool stuff, just that. The personality of a wet noodle, or a piece of carpet...that's what he's like. Hard to want to strip what little he's got away from him. So, we all let him fret about having a new piece of furniture, and pretend like it's a top priority in the day. Yes, yes, not to worry...we're all on this. Absolutely!!! Not to worry!!!
Poor rich fuck.
And another higher up complained, behind a closed door that we all could hear through, about the agony of one's spirituality and having to make these layoffs. Oh, the horror felt in it all. The guilt, the agony...the sadness... And how sweet, such and such was...but there was a cost of $3,000 dollars a month to the business.
(Without that money, how would we buy mechanical pencils instead of the regular No. 2 ones...How? How I ask you???? How are we going to be able to pay our society club bills???? I have to eat the food there that tastes like old dead money!!!! I have to!!! If I'm not seen there, my reputation will fall in the eyes of all the other rich old fucks! Oh, the spirituality of it all!!!!)
Oh, the heartbreak of it all.
Well, at a salary of $250,000 per year, how much spirituality does that buy a person? I would like to think that if I were making $250,000 per year, that I could afford to curb my lifestyle a bit, in order not to completely wreck someone else's home. I would like to think that I wouldn't feel the need to protect my lifestyle so much that I would need to wreck other people's families. Maybe, I'm not thinking of how expensive one's electricity bill or food bill or gas bill, (the basics of living), gets at that level of salary. I know it costs a lot to heat a huge house full of empty rooms that one is never going to need or use...maybe I'm not cutting people enough slack. That could be true.
But, yesterday what's all doom and gloom. I did go to Community Pool to exercise. This is what you graduate to after pool Physical Therapy.
Now, there are politics that come with Community Pool. And one has to tread lightly, and navigate carefully through it all. You have to pick you alliances and what your offences, etc., among all the retarded people, the gimpy people, the head cases, and the old people. It's the old people that you have to what out for.
There are two Aqua Gators in the pool. These are underwater treadmills. The old people covet them. They will cut you off in the water for them. They have been known to stay on them more than the allotted ten minutes per person in Community Pool, as the posted sign says, just to spite someone else who needs a turn. Yes, the old people can be ferocious. And to top off my already sour mood about sharing, true to form, the old people were in top shitass form about the Aqua Gators yesterday.
It was a bit of a tragedy. One of the Aqua Gators was down for repairs. Lucky for me, it wasn't the one that I preferred to use. The good Aqua Gator was still up and running, a bit of a ray of sunshine.
I started to swim/walk over to it. And was cut off, per usual. So, I decided that I would be a bit of an old lady force myself today. I just didn't have the patience to put up with the people who are supposed to be examples for the rest of us, behaving badly. I wanted my turn at the Aqua Gator as well. I paid my money, I broke my leg, my land therapy was in hold up, I was valid in Community Pool, just like anyone else!!!!!
I stood quite near the Aqua Gator, and politely asked if she minded if I started the line, and could take my turn at the Gator after her...her turn was almost over the ten minute limit...and I intended to stake my claim, and make my presence known.
The old lady replied that she guessed that I could have my turn after her's, but the other lady, who had just gotten into the pool (we're only allowed one hour in the pool each, and my hour would be completed after the Aqua Gator), well the other old lady, who had just gotten in the pool, well, she usually liked to use the Aqua Gator to warm up. One old lady, trying to bully me, in favor of another old lady.
Ok, most times, yes, you would forgo your turn for old people. But, the older I get, and the more bad old people that I see, who were probably bad young people, the less likely I feel like giving up my fucking turn at the Aqua Gator.
I was so grouchy that I wanted to say, Fuck You, You Old Fucking Fuck, Seriously, Fuck You. Oh, I'm getting the Aqua Gator After You...Don't Make Me Tell On Your Going Over The Time Limit Ass!!!! Don't You Make Me Do It!!!!
But, I didn't. In my own polite, sweet voice, I stated that I would start the line, and would make sure that Old Lady No. 2 got the Aqua Gator directly, right after me. Not to worry. I wouldn't let anyone else have it, but her. And to solidify my spot as next in line for the Aqua Gator, I began looking like I was very busy doing my arm exercises right next to Old Lady on the Aqua Gator. Yes, very intent, and very busy being healthy, and very next in line.
Old ladies No. 1 and No. 2 both made faces...but backed down. I would go on to be next on the coveted Aqua Gator. I normally just do five minutes. But, I did take the full ten minutes, relishing in my small triumph.
But, I'm on guard now. Yes, I am. The old people of Community Pool are a tough gang. And a driving force. I look to make sure that my walker was still in it's spot by the poolside. It did disappear for a bit one day, when an old man "mistakenly" took off with it. I look to make sure that my locker in the locker room hasn't been tampered with...that's happened before, too. With prison gangs use can often buy safety with money or cigarette, or selling some unfortunate poor soul out as jail booty. With the old people, I'm not sure. I may have to bake a pie or make ornaments or something corny like that...but it is for my own safety.
Yes, I will have to do that...lest there be no more turns at the Aqua Gator for me.
Sunday, December 11, 2005
I Need A Hero...Oh Yeah...There's Myself
We need to create new heroes and fast. (This was from a pre-birthday email to a friend yesterday.)
This post will be a bit all over the place....more than usual.
It's just minutes, slightly before I was born thirty-four years ago. Thirty-four years ago there was a tornado. I was supposedly born in a tornado. A huge destructive force of nature that would tear me from my mother's belly and land in me the bright, cold room of a redneck hospital to start my beginning. There is a park outside of this hospital, that has a large pond, that has white ducks. Growing up, I did always love to feed the ducks there...so there is that part of the memory. All the quacking and grabbing for old bread...
I will be the first to admit that my parents had no business reproducing. Honestly, I have no idea why they personally thought this was an ok thing to do. My mother is mentally ill, and my father, who will never-ever admit it, he is, too. If there were ever two people, on this planet, who could be examples of forced sterilization, it would in fact be my parents. But, then, so was the entire, North Texas town I grew up in. History would have been dramatically affected for the better, had the entire town not been allowed to breed. Only a few of us actually managed to escape. The friends that I grew up with are all fucked up. My entire graduating class. Amazing. All with their cheap beer hangovers, and Wal-Mart shopping carts filled with mac and cheese dinners, illegitimate children donned with toughskins jeans, and flip-flops in the winter. Yeah, pretty amazing. It has been rumored that there's a natural source of Lithium in the water. God probably assured that it would be there for good reason.
Is it possible that a weather condition can determine you being? Maybe, I think. I think back and look forward, and to me, it does often feel like I'm in the middle, with a wall of frenzy passing by me, at breakneck speeds, with random glance pieces floating in the middle...suspended in the wall...on for a tiny second...then gone. And, I seem to create a fair amount of destruction in my wake at times. Then sometimes, I seem to forcefully clear new paths for clean land and new beginnings.
Someone pointed out to me that I rarely talk about good things, or write about happy things. That's true. It's not necessarily because I'm that unhappy when I talk or write about them. It's just that the happy things don't need to be worked on, they don't need to be thought out, they do not have potentially destructive aspects to them that should be recorded for history. And perhaps, I'm a bit selfish with the good things. Maybe, I just like to keep those to myself. I do pull out the good stuff with my closest, dearest, most inner circle, people...probably because they're in the memories as well. And it's true, I'm not always willing to share them with people either. I am a bit of a separatist, a bevy of catalogues, if you will. I've only, in recent years, began networking to create a larger family. Goes to my Chinese birth symbol of the Pig. Yes, very characteristic of the Pig. For Pigs, they don't really seem to get going until later in life.
Would it make me a better person if I only spoke happy all the time? I'm not sure I have that in me. I cannot be one of those people who dons the colored bracelets, or puts ribbon stickers on the back of their car, joins the optimist club, etc.
And, I think that it's perfectly ok for there to be some among us who can record parts of our history that aren't so pretty.
December is a hard month. Who doesn't know that? Often, every December, just in case, I find myself apologizing to Jesus, that we have deperately missed the entire point of his life.
One year, true to statistics (as much as I hate to admit), I did try to off myself. No, I'm not going to do that again...I was much younger then. So, quit asking. And through that experience, I gained some of my most dearest, truest, coolest, everything good friends. I am amazed by them all the time.
I think back this morning, of a couple of people I know, who didn't make it from their same experience. One was this very dear, sweet, talented, young man. When I met him, I knew he would try to off himself. My hope at that time, that he would just try it and fail. But, he didn't.
And one can look at the likes of Elliot Smith, Beethoven, and Spalding Grey and wonder if somehow we have failed to create a place for creative people to be safe or energized. Was it true that back in the day, you could be Socrates...just roaming around the hillsides, thinking and making comments whenever you felt like it? Not so much now. You have to have a job of some real society based substance. Some people just can't do that. And there are few that make it to stardom, and even then can't handle the spotlight...so hard to say. That boy did not feel safe and energized. And there was a time that I didn't either.
Saturday, December 10, 2005
Dreams of a quiet birthday plagued by sociopathic tendencies...The truth about me and Georgie
I looked it up, just to check. I do fit some of the criteria. Although, I have not been to prison. I did go to jail once for unpaid traffic tickets...I won't be doing that again. (Everything you've heard about the bologna sandwiches, the flip flops, the bright orange jumpers, the scratchy blankets...all true.) And there seems to be a trend with this diagnosis. I know several people who meet the criteria listed. In fact, most of the free thinkers I know match this criteria. So, perhaps we should band together for the good of humanity. Rule Benders Unite!!!!!
Maybe I am making light of the diagnosis, but you cannot help but see the strikingly fantastic resemblance to the larger population in need of finding the loopholes, the number of people in prisons growing, the homeless, the power people, and the diagnosis.
Are we not responsible for this upswing of being in need of finding the loopholes disguised as mental illness?
So, there it is...the quality that Bush, me, and the homeless man standing at my street corner all have in common.
That's a swift kick in the ole happy birthday pants.
Well, shit.
War...Good God Ya'll
http://www.nytimes.com/2005/12/08/international/europe/08pinter.html?emc=eta1
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/middle_east/3738368.stm
http://www.guardian.co.uk/comment/story/0,3604,920588,00.html#article_continue
To All:
Three articles, from three creditable sources. I have sat and watched much more of our human history this year. The unfolding of what we will make of ourselves in the world history. I have an American flag at my desk, from a Veterans Day party some time ago, that was made in China, I discovered on the tag. And some time ago, we, at the office, were given coat pens in remembrance of 9/11...they have the twin towers on them, and the American flag, and a big, fat, made in China sticker on the back. We have sold our own flag to China for cheaper labor and mass production.
The past few days I have watched military personnel sending home holiday greetings for their families, played on all the local TV stations. I come from a military family. In fact, I am the only child not to have gone into service. I made this decision based on the repercussions that I saw the military lifestyle inflicted upon my family. I know that the majority of military people that we have sent overseas are children, by most standards, and also, people who couldn't afford to live in our country if they didn't have military income. I have lived in towns where the military is a big driving economy force. My family still lives in towns built around military bases.
I am not against, in any since of the word, the people who have joined the military. They have made the choice to risk their lives for steady paychecks.
I cannot, however, support a war based on causalities and atrocities that were happening long before we got involved. We waited until our own interests we at stake. And then the war has been perpetrated with mis-information and lies...candy-coated bullshit. And if the majority of Americans were more well read, more worldly, we could have made a decision based on those views, not the views fed to us.
John Lennon was shot by a mad man. And I'm not entirely sure myself that I am that fond of John Lennon, I'm not that fond of the Beetles really. However, there were so many people, of so many generations, that mourned his loss...even after 25 years. He is part of our history. Yet, his message has seemed to fall on deaf ears as we buy our flags from China, grab latte that contain not fair traded coffee, and get into our SUVs.
Our suspected "terrorist" list has grown to 80,0000 names. These people are all on the US No-Fly list. This has begun to smell a lot like the Red Scare. And I am not ok not being able to speak my mind. And I am not ok torturing people. And I am not ok, putting military people at risk for a war that could have been prevented. And I'm not ok watching our President talking to his dogs about presents while people are getting shot in the head. Are you kidding me?!?
So, to John Lennon. Slightly weird with his even stranger wife. May your message somehow get through at some point - cause we're dying out here.
-June Doe
what happened to the gunthat killed John Lennoncould we find that gun& melt itpour it down the throatof the man who pulled the triggerthere's a hole that will ever fill Albert Hall& nothing will bring him back
so give me the gun that killed John Lennon
& imagine it a love that has flown
© 2005 R Lance W'ms December John Lennon: Dead 25 Years
Wednesday, December 07, 2005
Giving helps me to regulate my bowels
Tuesday, December 06, 2005
I Have Money...Can I Smell Your Feet?, and other popular life lessons
He said that was too much. I said, ok, see you later. He just couldn't stand it. You could see that he just couldn't stand it. I knew that he had the money. And the fact of the matter is, if you're going to cost someone else for their time, and more importantly, your weird foot habit, that has to cost. They're not especially fantastic feet, but, they're not bargain basement, overthecounter feet either.
The bouncer was just seeing me to the car, when foot guy came back up to us. He would meet my foot price after all.
So, I gave the bouncer his cut. Man, was he happy. After that, this bouncer always watched over me...often catering to me. He might have taken someone out for me, if I'd ever needed it. You can't buy my loyalty for five hundred bucks, but whatever. I took my cut. I took of my shoes, and while foot guy watched with extreme fascination and glee, I did what he asked. I am, after all, a person of my word.
I timed the foot thing. Three minutes where up. The foot guy backed off, and seemed happy with his purchase. I said good night to all, shut my car door, put my seatbelt on, lit my after work cigarette, started the car, and began to drive home. All in a day's work, for the nudie bar.
How I think this applies, is that I never want to stuff my creative urges so far into myself that I end up being the person addicted to formulating lies for other people, or being addicted to MASH, or being the person who needs to smell feet. I'm just saying.
Monday, December 05, 2005
Oh Christmas Tree and the Weekend
The Only June Doe LIVE (sometimes)
Most times I'm just trying to climb back into the closet. I often can't find my way or my pants.